The poll Don't answer unless you know, because you yourself have a tulpa. No guesses please. Pointless foreword Narration is pretty much the most important step in tulpa creation - I think so, at leas
That's quite the simplification but yes, talk to your tulpa whenever possible and try to set aside time for dedicated sessions where you're focusing solely on the tulpa.
But of course, try to read as many guides as possible to familiarize yourself with the different methods. None of them should be followed word for word, just pick out the things that you're comfortable with and adapt that into your own approach.
I have considered trying to form a love with a tulpa when i get one but ultimatly i have to see who and how they are before i really can see if i want to
forcing a personality that's made with selfish intent and purpose, like making a tulpa that is super passive and subservient, is where you cross a line so far as I'm concerned